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What do you do if sex is painful?

Yesterday I wrote a post dealing with a question I’d received from our anonymous Have A Question page.  The post was on whether or not a marriage can survive without sex.  But, there was another question within the one comment that I wanted to address,

Can a marriage survive without sex?

I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page about a week ago: Can a Christian marriage survive without it ever once being consummated? My wife and I had pain issues in every attempt to consummate our relationship. We stopped trying altogether about

Sex when the kids are home

I received this question about a week ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: For the longest time I have been the low drive spouse but as my heart and mind changes in becoming the higher drive spouse. Well my husband is getting older

SWM025: Preparing for Mother’s Day

Mother’s Day is coming up this Sunday, so thought I’d talk briefly about why father’s should celebrate Mother’s Day in honour of their wives.  And today, my wife, Christina, has made the time to join me on this episode.  Sort of to make up for the ones I missed recently.  So, here we go.

Should I leave to find happiness?

I received this question about a week ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: Hello Jay, a friend put me on to your site awhile ago. I just signed up for daily posts this week. The second article I read was about the 11%

How do you forgive an abuser?

I received this question this weekend from our anonymous Have A Question page: My wife as had a brother commit incest sexual touching and masturbation on her and other in her family from around 6-9 year old. She has strugle with sex and being touch since

On the topic of edging

I received this question last night from our Have A Question page: My wife is curious about “edging”, what is it? Is there a benefit for this? Edging is the practice of getting your spouse right up to the “edge” of having an orgasm, without

Is it alright to ejaculate on my wife?

I received this anonymous question last night through our Have A Question page.  I have more than have been there longer, and I intend to answer them, but today I don’t have much time, so I picked it because I thought it would be short.  Plus,