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What can you do if your wife is too ticklish for oral sex?

What can you do if your wife is too ticklish for oral sex?

You know what I love about being a Christian marriage educator?  Helping people by answering questions they don’t feel they can ask anywhere else.  Giving them a safe place to ask it and doing my best to make them feel like they’re not

Is it okay to write erotica for my spouse?

Is it okay to write erotica for my spouse?

We hear all the time from Christian bloggers about the dangers of reading erotica.  A quick search found no less than a dozen posts on the topic.  However, I couldn’t find a single one (besides my own) on writing erotica from a Christian

Does the missionary position make sex holy?

During the Middle Ages, the church was very open about sex.  In fact, they seemed to be more open to talking about it than we generally are today. The Church on sex during the Middle Ages The problem is, their main focus was

Review: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

Every month, more than 1000 people come to this blog looking for information on how to introduce bondage into their marital bed or asking why it is that their spouse wants to be tied up.  Some of that is due to the 50

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SWM029 – Fantasy affairs, anal sex, golden showers, work during sex and low drives

https://media.blubrry.com/sexwithinmarriage/p/content.blubrry.com/sexwithinmarriage/SWM_029-Fantasy_affairs_anal_sex_golden_showers_work_during_sex_and_and_low_drives.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe: Apple Podcasts | Android | Google Play | RSSEpisode 29 of the podcast.  Here are the questions I’m answering today: Question 1 194 – My question is about lust. Here’s my problem. I absolutely

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SWM028 – Answering questions about oral sex before marriage, joint bank accounts, toys, dirty talking and grooming

https://media.blubrry.com/sexwithinmarriage/p/content.blubrry.com/sexwithinmarriage/SWM_028-Answering_questions_about_oral_sex_before_marriage_joint_bank_accounts_toys_dirty_talking_and_grooming.mp3Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe: Apple Podcasts | Android | Google Play | RSSI’m changing up the format of the podcast a bit this week and answering some reader questions. If you like the podcast, please don’t forget to

Orgasming from oral sex survey results

A couple of weeks ago, I started running a survey to answer the question of one of the people in my Uncovering Intimacy Champions group.  Namely “How many men can’t orgasm from oral sex”.  Well, I expanded it a bit to answer a

Christian Sex Surveys

Orgasming from Oral Sex Survey

It’s been a while since we’ve run a survey, and we have a lot of new readers who have never participated in one. So I thought we’d try to get back into the habit of doing them regularly. One of the people in

How to ask for what you want in bed

How to ask for what you want in bed

I think a lot of spouses don’t ask for what they want in bed.  I think this is frustrating for both spouses because the spouse who doesn’t ask if often not getting what they want or need to make the sexual experience the best

10 steps to improving orgasms for wives

10 steps to better orgasms for wives

Way back in 2014, someone asked in our Wives’ Orgasm Experiences survey how to have better orgasms for women: Beyond how to achieve orgasm, I’d like to hear from other wives on how they have gotten their orgasms stronger or more complete.  I

Do men like having their balls played with?

Sorry if the title’s a bit crude.  Couldn’t find anything that fit better.  I’ve received a bunch of questions over the years about testicles.  Here’s the most recent one: Do most men like having their balls played with? My husband and I are