Resources Archives - Uncovering Intimacy

SWM 081 – The Limon by Minna – Product Review

Possibly the best bullet vibrator ever – waterproof, rechargeable, whisper-quiet, and rumbly. Plus, a few of our favourite ways to use it.

Sex Noises Survey Results

We were looking for information on the types of noises people make during sex, but we came across an interesting data point – are men more caring lovers than women?

Why you should take couples massage classes

I’ve been telling husbands for years that they should learn how to give a good sensual massage. It’s one of my go-to recommendations for helping couples when it comes to sexual intimacy. The couples who have tried it all agree – it can transform a marriage to gain the skill of giving good massages. Both husbands and wives benefit from taking a couples massage course, though the immediate draw might be different.

In this post, I’m going to tell you a bit about why you should take a couples massage course. I’ll also let you know my favourite couples massage course out there.

Black Friday Deals for your Marriage – Save up to 50%

Well, Black Friday is upon us again and that means Christmas shopping for a lot of people. 2020 has been a very strange year, hasn’t it? But, we’re in the home stretch now, 2021 is coming up fast. In the meantime, here’s a quick rundown of the deals out there that I’m aware of in case you’re looking for a way to make your Christmas a little more intimate this year.

How long does sex last – Survey Results

Does how long you spend having sex affect sexual satisfaction? Here’s what our reader’s said in our latest survey.

What’s the best way to initiate sex?

For the last month or so, we’ve had a survey open about how you prefer to have your spouse initiate sex. If you never got a chance, you can fill it out here. I do sometimes delve into old surveys to answer new questions, so

What do couples do when one wants sex and the other doesn’t?

The difference in sexual desire between a husband and a wife is one of those universal conflicts. I think just about every marriage deals with it at some point. If yours hasn’t yet – well congratulations newlyweds! Just because it’s a conflict though doesn’t mean

Jay Dee on SWM 095 – August 2022 Anonymous Questions: “Except you called it a fetish. So you’re using others for your own sexual excitement.” Dec 5, 14:10

Bruce on Can my wife get addicted to sex toys?: “My wife recently got some toys but she refuses to use them together and I feel like I constantly beg…” Dec 5, 13:17

S7 on SWM 095 – August 2022 Anonymous Questions: “Hi Jay, I’m the OP for the wet and messy fetish. We are both very secure in ourselves and are…” Dec 1, 16:04

Anon O’mus on SWM 095 – August 2022 Anonymous Questions: “Sex Outside – Totally worth it if you can make it happen. It adds an element of adventure and vulnerability.…” Dec 1, 04:13

steve on What to say when your wife tells you about her day: “Your response may get more attention if it wasn’t a run-on sentence…but as a husband of 25 years, what you’re…” Nov 30, 03:14

Jay Dee on Why Do Married Men Masturbate?: “Just because she was wrong doesn’t mean you were right…” Nov 29, 22:27

Steve on Why Do Married Men Masturbate?: “This is the kind of nonsense my ex-wife used to manipulate and shame me because she refused to repent of…” Nov 29, 22:07

Jay Dee on My Husband Admitted To Masturbating, How Do I Get Over The Hurt?: “It’s a combination of chemicals. Endorphins, oxytocin, prolactin, vasopressin, and others. And most of those are released in far smaller…” Nov 28, 07:35

john.ladykillernl on My Husband Admitted To Masturbating, How Do I Get Over The Hurt?: “Have you ever noticed how good you sleep after making love? This is because a substance is released that promotes…” Nov 28, 07:30