Category Archives: Resources

Sex, clothing & lights survey

As my long time readers know, we have long standing practice of running surveys.  In fact, we have quite the list going from surveys done over the years: Some “rough” sex statistics Is my spouse attracted to me? Reasons not to have sex Are sex

Talking about sex survey results

Talking about sex - survey results

Probably the number one piece of advice I hand out to people is “talk to your spouse about it”.  It’s amazing how often that simple answer makes huge changes in marriage. But, I wanted to know how much of a difference talking about sex makes.

Talking about sex survey

Christian Sex Surveys

I was going to write a post today about talking about sex with your spouse, but I want to get some data first.  So, let’s see how many responses we can get in the next week. You can fill out the survey here to share your

Review: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

Every month, more than 1000 people come to this blog looking for information on how to introduce bondage into their marital bed or asking why it is that their spouse wants to be tied up.  Some of that is due to the 50 Shades of

Orgasming from oral sex survey results

A couple of weeks ago, I started running a survey to answer the question of one of the people in my Uncovering Intimacy Champions group.  Namely “How many men can’t orgasm from oral sex”.  Well, I expanded it a bit to answer a few more

Orgasming from Oral Sex Survey

Christian Sex Surveys

It’s been a while since we’ve run a survey, and we have a lot of new readers who have never participated in one. So I thought we’d try to get back into the habit of doing them regularly. One of the people in my Uncovering

Last minute sexy Christmas gifts

Last Minute Sexy Christmas Gifts

I had someone ask about sexy Christmas gifts they can get their spouse.  So, here’s a very quick run through of some things that I think you could still manage to get by Christmas. 1. Books ($10 and under) Amazon will let you know if

Eva – A strange but effective sex toy

Eva - The strange but effective sex toy

I’ll admit, the Eva is the strangest sex toy we own.  I mean, it doesn’t look like any other toy I have.  Almost every other one, it’s fairly obvious what you do with it. This one needs some explaining, but when you get it, you

4 sex positions made easier by the Liberator Wedge

4 sex positions made easier by the Liberator Wedge

A few weeks ago, I posted an unboxing of my new Liberator Black Label Wedge.  Sorry, I had technical problems and the audio didn’t work.  I’ll admit when I learned about the Liberator wedge, I wasn’t sure how useful it would be. We’ve used pillows

Saving your marriage before it starts – Book Review

Saving your marriage before it starts

Do you ever wish someone had handed you a book when you got married to get you started on the right footing?  Or one that would have helped in saving your marriage from a lot of the struggles you’ve experienced as a couple? You know,