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Uncovering Intimacy has been helping married Christian couples talk honestly about sex since 2012, built on original surveys of thousands of married Christians, 662 published articles, and Scripture, taught frankly and without shame. Tell us where you are and we will point you to what actually helps.
And if it is a question you cannot ask anyone else, you are in exactly the right place.
Jay Dee · Christian Marriage Coach
Fourteen years of proof
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Who's behind this
Jay Dee is a Christian marriage coach who has spent fourteen years writing, surveying, and answering couples' hardest questions about sex. His work has grown into 662 articles, a long-running podcast, and over twenty surveys of married Christians.
The goal has never been shock value, and it has never been shame. It is to help Christian couples build a marriage that is honest, connected, and yes, genuinely enjoyable, in the bedroom too, with real answers grounded in Scripture and data.
"No crude talk, no coy euphemisms, no judgment. Just straight, biblical answers to the questions real couples are actually asking."
How Jay Dee describes the whole point of Uncovering Intimacy
"My wife and I did not talk about sex for 25 years."
A coaching client, describing the silence he brought to his first session
Few couples wait twenty-five years. But nearly every couple has something they have never managed to say out loud, and that is exactly where coaching begins.
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Jay Dee is a trained Christian life and marriage coach. There is no fixed program to work through. He meets you where your marriage actually is and works at your pace, not a curriculum you have to fit into.
Pricing is scaled to your income, so getting help stays fair whether you are a student pastor or a surgeon.
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