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Have a question you’re not sure who to ask?
A lot of people find their way here because there’s something they’re carrying that they don’t know how to talk about, something about sex, marriage, desire, faith, or frustration that doesn’t feel safe to bring up anywhere else. If that’s you, you’re not alone.
If you have a question and you’re not sure who to ask, you can send it to me here, whichever way feels safer.
Before you ask
It might already be answered
Most of the questions people send me have come in many times before, and I’ve usually written or recorded an answer already. Take a quick look first. If yours isn’t there, ask away below.
Asked most often
Option 1
Email me directly
If you’re comfortable emailing me, I can often ask a few follow-up questions and respond in a way that actually fits your situation. You don’t need to have it perfectly thought out. Messy is completely fine.
Your message comes straight to me, not a team or an autoresponder. I read and reply personally.
Option 2
Ask anonymously
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If you don’t know where to start, just start writing. That’s enough. It doesn’t have to be perfectly formatted, and don’t worry about how long it is. If it’s short and light on context, I’ll answer in a more general way so it can still be helpful. If it’s long and detailed, I may trim it when publishing, but I will read every word.