Let’s face it, the women won out in the sex toy department. If you look for toys for men, it’s a pretty slim selection, and half of them (like vibrating rings) are really for both. Women have multiple categories and subcategories of toys to choose from.
And to be honest – most of the time we men aren’t really looking for a toy for us, and I’m the same way. I did not go shopping for a toy for men. Instead, Lovense reached out to me and asked if I’d like to review their new toy for men. I actually tried to get them to switch to a different toy (one to use on my wife), but they were pretty insistent.
I told them that I’m more of a giver than a receiver, and I actually prefer buying toys to use on her. They wanted me to try it anyway.
I said that I don’t tend to get a lot of pleasure out of stimulation like this – I don’t even orgasm from manual or oral sex, so this isn’t likely to have a very positive outcome. Still, they insisted.
Now, I’m not one to turn down a free toy, even if it doesn’t work for me – I was more worried they’d be annoyed about the review, but they were very clear – they’d rather have an honest review than a positive one, and even if it doesn’t work for me, the truth is, I think it would probably work for a lot of men.
So, here’s my honest experience with it – the good, and the underwhelming, plus all the caveats that go with my experience so you can try to make an informed decision yourself about whether it’s something you want to try.
