Topics include: Husband who gets defensive about possible porn use Did I change my mind about anal sex? How to I tell my wife that more sex helps with temptation? Is mutual masturbation okay if you’re separated due to work? Haven’t been able to have sex for 4 years due to vaginismus Friend can’t have sex with his wife because of prior porn use Is a panty fetish a problem? Wife hates being pregnant and being a mother
Topics include: Fix the alcohol abuse before trying to fix your sex life Wife who has hourly mood swings and is disrespectful Wife who engages in sex, but isn’t sexual Oxytocin and porn and masturbation Wife wants husband to get a vasectomy Clone-a-willy question
A reader asked: Your post about your surgery is 5+ years old…. any updates, additional thoughts, additional things to research? Is there a certain “technique” we should look into (stitches vs something else I read about briefly?) dare I ask, has it affected your faith? We are Southern Baptist raised, and raising our kiddos Baptist/ non-denominational. In other words, denomination is not a factor in this decision. But there are so many opinions out there, I’m at a loss. I know that is what they are, just opinions. At this point, if I spend time in prayer and the Lord brings me peace… I’m going to trust God to give my husband the same peace. If not, we will go another route. As the wife, even if we are both pro-vasectomy, I just don’t know how our relationship would handle the guilt if something did go wrong….
Today we’re going to answer a question about having sex with a well-endowed husband. This question came in a while ago, and since I hadn’t answered it before and I felt there was a lot of information to share, I thought I’d split it off into its own post. So, let’s talk about the struggles of having a larger-than-average-sized penis.
Topics Include: Wet Dreams Money and Marriage Handjobs and control Is my dead husband still with me? Are dreams sinful? How do I take control of my marriage? Sex once a year Is it wrong for a widow to have desires? Unsatisfied with little sex Wife suddenly changed oral skills Best position for first time Is oral sex a sin? Husband has a lot more experience Movies to get in the mood Prepping for anal sex How can I get my wife to show more passion? Issues with wife’s self-esteem Questions about lube Realistic toys
Topics include: Wife becoming less adventurous How long before porn memories fade? What counts as premature ejaculation? Is getting a vasectomy a sin? Husband isn’t acting like a believer Is it okay to talk about sex? Are we going too far? Sex frequency has gone down Crossdressing men Rimming Sex once or twice per year since kids were born Conflict over anal play CBD Lube Spanking Masturbation for medical reasons Is masturbation okay if your spouse can’t participate? Will masturbation keep me out of heaven?
Hi Jay, Just a general question, what is the feeling of “feeling naughty”? And I guess there are other questions attached, is it sin? Are we describing something that’s simply “different” as “naughty” as maybe we don’t have another reference point in our vocabulary? There’s no great issue in our marriage or anything around the topic, just curious for your thoughts. But as a little context that got me thinking – my wife and I had a night in a hotel recently to celebrate our anniversary (which was actually 6 months ago, better late than never). As a treat and for fun, I bought her some lingerie that had a hole in the crotch area. It was very sexy and she loved them and we made love while she wore them. To which she exclaimed “It feels so naughty!”…which I had to agree with, but I’d probably describe more like lots of “fun” whether naughtiness was an element or not. Thanks for your good work!
Topics Include: Why do people think it’s okay to commit adultery if their spouse is okay with it? Caught son masturbating with his mom’s underwear – what do I do? Handjobs with condoms on? Guilt about bachelorette party Is crossdressing normal? The TENUTO How do I get my wife to come to bed?
So my husband and I have been married for about 8 months now. It seems like every time he gives me oral sex, I end up orgasming within just a few minutes. Now, as great as orgasming is, I feel like after I orgasm so quickly, I am not as stimulated by penetration. Also, I really enjoy oral sex and I wish the experience could last longer. My husband and I waited until marriage to have sex. But before I was following Christ and before I met my husband, I was sexually active, including oral sex, and this never happened. So my questions are: 1) is this normal? is “premature ejaculation” a thing in women? 2) are there any ways to fix this and/or last longer? and 3) in women, if you orgasm once, is there a “come down” period? How is it possible to have multiple orgasms in one “sex session”?