SWM 052 – Are Dominance/Submission Games in the Bedroom OK?

Are Dominance_Submission Games in the bedroom OK_

A reader asks:
I enjoy calling my husband “Sir” in bed, as we enjoy our submissive/dominant roles in marriage to be played out in sex as well. He felt weird about it at first, but now loves it. I read your post a while ago where you mentioned that humiliation isn’t good for your partner in the long term. Would you consider this to be humiliation? What about the trend to call men “daddy” in bed?

Black Friday 2019 Resources for your Marriage

Well, the year is almost done. In the US, people celebrating Thanksgiving, Christmas is around the corner, and that means Black Friday and Cyber Monday are upon us yet again. So, I thought I’d let my readers know about a few things out there for

SWM 050 – Anonymous Questions from September 2019 – Deployed Spouses, Passive Sex Partners, Sleep Apnea and How to Boost Attraction for your Spouse

Anonymous Questions from our readers

In this episode, we’re tackling the subjects:

  • How do you deal with deployment and sex drives
  • How do we improve sexual intimacy
  • How to improve our sex life
  • Satisfaction and adventurousness
  • How do you get your wife to be more dominant in bed
  • Asking doesn’t work, not asking doesn’t work
  • Husband has sleep apnea
  • What should teenagers do instead of masturbate?

SWM 049 – Focus on your spouse, not the model

Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what sort of sex drive you have, because it can change. Focus more on your spouse, and less on fitting them into a box. That way, if things change, you can adjust to the changes, rather that be stuck on a model that doesn’t match your dynamic anymore.

Intimacy Advent Calendar is updated and available

Intimacy Advent Calendar - Give your spouse an intimate gift this Christmas season!

Our Intimacy Advent Calendar is back and better than ever! Looking for a unique and sexy gift for your spouse this Christmas? This might be it.

With 100 different activities to choose from, you can give your spouse a gift they’re sure to remember. While everyone else is stressed out during the holidays, they’ll be wondering how you two manage to stay so loving and caring.

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