SWM 161
A husband writes: seventeen years married, sex twice a week, and his wife will not try anything beyond the basics. He says he does not know why she refuses. But she told him why, four times, and he heard it…
SWM 144
One of our supporters posted a question in our forum which led to a bit of a discussion on what men perceive as sexy, and it shook the questioner a bit, because it was radically different from what she had…
SWM 127
Topics include: Why am I not interested in sexy any more after having a baby? How do I get my wife to rest without guilt? Why does my wife dismiss my advice when she asks for it? How do I…
SWM 117
Well, it’s winter here, which means cold and flu season. So, of course, the last couple of weeks, it’s been rolling through our family of 7. Christina and I were the last to get it, and it seemed I got…
SWM 112
Answering the question: Hi Jay, I’ve noticed a dichotomy when it comes to expectations for male and female sex drives and what’s considered desirable sexual performance. As a man, I feel like there’s a lot of pressure to perform sexually.…
SWM 079
In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wanting your wife to have sex with other men How to handle a spouse who doesn’t want to have sex What is healthy sexuality for single people? Does God intend for you…
SWM 065
In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Managing a high sex drive Losing erections while changing positions Being too loud during sex Husband thinks his wife is sexually boring Vaginismus How do you surrender and give God control in…
Topics include: Husbands who refuse sex Being too wet Pegging Dreams Needing different kinds of foreplay Polyamory Cuckolding
SWM 049
Ultimately, it doesn’t matter what sort of sex drive you have, because it can change. Focus more on your spouse, and less on fitting them into a box. That way, if things change, you can adjust to the changes, rather…
Alright, it’s been a couple months, so time for another roundup of the anonymous questions I’ve received. If you want to submit your own question, you can do so here. Or, of course, you can always just email me at [email protected].
It’s been almost two months since I answered anonymous questions, so I thought I’d catch up. For those who are new to the site, these questions are all gathered from our anonymous Have A Question page. If you have a…