Here’s a question I know quite a few people struggle with. I know I have in the past. To be honest, the idea is still a bit tempting even though we don’t drink anymore. I often like to get my…
Why is sex better when my spouse is drunk?
Glossary Term: sexual arousal
Definition: It refers to the physiological response, often marked by increased heart rate and blood flow to certain regions of the body, that typically precedes sexual activity, stimulated by physical or psychological factors.
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