SWM 047
Ever feel like having a high sex drive is a burden? Have you wondered why God made you this way? Here are some of the reasons I think having spontaneous desire is a blessing.
SWM 047 – Spontaneous desire is a blessing
Glossary Term: sexual satisfaction
Definition: A state of gratification and fulfillment derived from the mutual, consensual physical intimacy between a husband and wife.
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