Let’s face it, the women won out in the sex toy department. If you look for toys for men, it’s a pretty slim selection, and half of them (like vibrating rings) are really for both. Women have multiple categories and…
Are There Sex Toys for Men?
Glossary Term: sexual satisfaction
Definition: A state of gratification and fulfillment derived from the mutual, consensual physical intimacy between a husband and wife.
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