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SWM041 – How do you stay interested long term?

Are there things you have to do to keep interest in your spouse? Here are 7 tips to help you stay interested and renew attraction in your spouse.

Anonymous Questions – July 5, 2018

It’s amazing how a month can just fly right by. I just realized I haven’t done one of these since May. So, it’s about time we catch up. Here are the anonymous questions we’ve received lately from our Have A Question page. Question 1: Grooming

Your relationship has to be based on more than just sex

I was talking with Keelie from LoveHopeAdventure.com today and we got into a conversation about intimacy. In particular, about intimacy while dating. It ended up being a good discussion, and so I thought I’d share what I shared with her because this affects not only couples

How do I deal with same-sex attraction as a Christian?

There are a lot of Christians dealing with same-sex attraction. I think most of them don’t really know how to handle it. It’s no wonder they don’t either. We send a lot of confusing messages around in the Christian community about sexuality, especially when it’s

Confidence is sexy

I caused a bit of a stir yesterday with my post Romance is the death of sexual attraction. This is sort of a part two, but not the part two I think a lot of people were expecting. In short, if you don’t want to

Romance is the death of sexual attraction

I was writing another post, and suddenly this thought struck me, so I put it on hold and decided to tackle it. I think romance may be the death of sexual attraction. My generation, as well as one or two ahead and behind mine, have

Is it a sin to lust after your wife?

I received this through our Have A Question page where readers submit anonymous questions: Is it a sin to lust after your wife. The Bible says to not covet your neighbors wife. But is it wrong to covet your own wife. to look longingly at her

What do you do if you are asexual?

This question is starting to come up more and more. This week, I received the following message on Facebook: So what about ‘Asexuals’? I am a college student currently in a dating relationship and to be honest, I have pretty much no sexual attraction, desire, or

Wife turned on by naked women

This question came through on a survey comment, and I’m finally getting around to addressing it. I am a heterosexual married woman, and never been with anyone besides my husband. However, the sight of bare female breasts turns me on. I don’t seek it out