I was talking with someone the other day who was struggling with the idea that sex can be fun and silly and a laughable situation. I may be mistaken, but it seemed she never realized that it’s okay to laugh…
Sex can be silly
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Book Review: Hot Mama – 12 Secrets to a Sizzling Hot Marriage
It’s been a while since I’ve done a book review, and I’ve been waiting a long time to do this one, and entire year almost. Last October (2014), I was approached by one of the authors (Erin) asked if I…
It’s not just about sex
My wife left me and took the kids to her parents house. So I’m a bachelor again, in an empty house to myself, doing what I want, when I want. It’s very odd going from being a husband and father…
Is it okay to role-play a rape scenario?
I’m playing catch up on some previous questions. This one came in more than a month ago, and I’m afraid I’ve been a little slow to answer: My wife and I are both Christian Faith and have a question about…
Do spouses have the right to specific sexual acts?
Now, it could be argued that being married gives you the right to have sex. 1 Corinthians 7:5 would support this claim, and I think it’s perfectly reasonable to expect, when you get married, that sex is on the table…
Couples need to lie less and trust more when it comes to sex
I was talking with someone yesterday about some difficulties they were having with sex, and I asked if they minded if I wrote a post on the topic. After thinking about it, I realized the issue we were discussing went…
Why is it important for Christians to marry Christians?
I get emails weekly from readers who, sadly, are in marriages with non-Christians, while they themselves are believers. Some find themselves in this situations due to a loss of faith by their spouse, who used to believe, but far more…
Can I write erotica for my husband and I?
This question came in on our Have A Question page yesterday: I am a fanfiction writer, and I wrote a couple of erotica chapters, mostly between monogamous couples. I think prayer made me realized it was not the best idea, so…
Sermon audio: Church unity starts at home
Some of you are aware that a few weeks ago I was asked to preach in my church (no, I’m not a pastor), and some had expressed a desire to hear it, since I was talking about marriage. It took me…
When is sex outside of marriage permitted?
I found this question in my list of drafts that I hadn’t tackled yet, so here we go: My question is this, when circumstances are exceptional (impossible), is sex outside of marriage ok? In short, my situation is this –…
Can you divorce a spouse because of porn use?
This question came up in a discussion with some readers: If a spouse, after given an ultimatum about quitting porn, chooses the porn, is it okay to divorce them? The questioner basically gave the answer I would, but I wanted…