I’ve spent the last few years trying to get better insight into the mind of a spouse who desires less sex. Why? Because I’m married to one, and one of my goals in life is to make her feel known…
Are you sabotaging your sex life like I do?
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Anonymous Questions – Are Christian erotic story sites okay, and wanting to submit to a disinterested husband
It’s been about a month since our last Anonymous Questions posting, so I thought I’d catch up, as I have a couple of questions that I haven’t yet answered. For those who are new to the site, these questions are…
Have you’ve broken your wedding vows?
In our culture, when we say someone “broke their vows”, we automatically jump to thinking they had an affair or got divorced. But I think many of us are breaking our vows daily. What did you promise at your wedding?…
Post-sex dynamic and routines survey
Well, it’s time for another survey. I’ve received a few questions (including one from Keelie over at LoveHopeAdventure.com), that I thought I could roll into a survey. We’re asking questions about what happens after sex, refractory periods, and the like.…
How to stop feeling hurt so often
My spouse is in a unique position to hurt me more deeply and more often than anyone else, simply by being in an intimate (not just physically) relationship with me. She knows how to push my buttons better and harder…
Anonymous Questions – Pubic grooming stats, sex when you are not attracted, unconsummated marriages, and clitoral stimulation
It’s amazing how a month can just fly right by. I just realized I haven’t done one of these since May. So, it’s about time we catch up. Here are the anonymous questions we’ve received lately from our Have A…
SWM033 – Sermon – Sex: An uncomfortable topic we need to discuss
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This podcast episode is a sermon I wrote and delivered in my home church while the pastors were away and I was invited to preach. I’m not a pastor myself, but occasionally I am asked to step in while they…
Anonymous Questions – Is wanting adventurous sex natural, and husbands who do not want sex all the time
Well, it hasn’t quite been a week, but I wanted to get our weekly email out because of an announcement (if you missed it, subscribe to make sure you don’t miss any more). In the mean time, I also have…
Anonymous Questions – To masturbate or not, oral sex and swallowing, and a husband who cannot tell if she orgasms
Well, here we are for another round of anonymous questions. As mentioned in the weekly update (subscribe here if you didn’t get it), I’ll be answering them here for those who want to read and comment below. If you’d rather…
SWM032 – Is oral sex unsanitary?
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The question I have is concerning oral sex and whether it is “sanitary” or not,especially concerning cunnilingus, but also fellatio. I would love to go down on my wife, but she has a belief that she is “dirty” down there.…
Anonymous Questions – Adult nursing relationships, rebuilding intimacy after a porn addiction, and swallowing semen
In the last couple of weeks, we’ve received a few anonymous questions, and as I mentioned on our weekly update to the newsletter (subscribe here if you haven’t already), I’ll be answering them here for those who want to read…