I received this question last night from our Have A Question page: My wife is curious about “edging“, what is it? Is there a benefit for this? Edging is the practice of getting your spouse right up to the “edge”…
On the topic of edging
Glossary Term: sexual satisfaction
Definition: A state of gratification and fulfillment derived from the mutual, consensual physical intimacy between a husband and wife.
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