What Should I Get My Husband For Father’s Day?

So, its fathers day.  Do you have a gift yet?  I have good news for you.  You don’t need to buy one.  Here’s what most husbands want for fathers day: The act that made them a father in the first place given, not

New Twist on an old Game: Sexual Bets

Last week, my wife and I were chatting over Facebook (I was at work, she was on her phone).  We were discussing the plans for the evening, were there any meetings, clubs, activities, etc that we are required to go to.  Then she

What I Hate About Breastfeeding

OK, this is largely a rant, so hang on. We’re currently enjoying our fourth newborn.  All our children have been breastfed, and this one is no different.  Let me start by saying that I 100% agree with breastfeeding children.  I think it’s the

Is Sex A Need Or A Want

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this topic for the last few days, weeks, months, years.  I guess it’s been on my mind since I got married, or shortly afterwards.  As stated in my first post, my marriage started off a

Why Your Wife Can’t Tell You What She Wants

If your wife is like mine in this regard, and from my conversations with other men, many are, your wife does not like to tell you what she wants from you.  Generally she can’t tell you what she wants at all.  Your life

How Pregnancy Affects Sex

We recently welcomed our fourth child into our family and I thought I’d write a bit to reflect what’s going on.  Specifically how pregnancy and after the birth affect sex from the male perspective. Now, I know this may upset some of the women who

Sexual Frequency: Why I Don’t Worry Anymore

For the first 8 or so years of my marriage, a constant argument was the frequency of sex.  This seems to be a common theme with many couples.  At least the ones who are willing to talk about it.  In fact, I’m not

Sex Within Marriage Maiden Post (pun intended)

So, here I am, a Christian, launching a blog, about sex.  What am I thinking? I’ve been a Christian my entire life (meaning I grew up in a Christian family).  Recently I have come to realize that we, as Christians, are not doing a