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Is it sinful for a woman to wear pants?

This week I saw this question in my moderation queue: I want to ask about clothing, about woman not wearing what belongs to a man. I need explanation on that because i feel deut 22 vs 5 is misunderstood. That looked like a fun topic,

Sexual Positions Survey Results

At the request of a few readers, I ran a survey a week and a bit ago asking people what their favorite positions were during sex.  And I decided to hold out doing the analysis until we hit 500 respondents.  That seemed to work, because we

Do not be deceived

I come across a pattern from time to time in this ministry.  Couples who get deceived by something evil, thinking it’s good.  I got a message just yesterday showcasing this pattern yet again.  So, I thought I’d write a quick post in the hopes that

Making help more affordable

I thought I’d let you guys know of a change over at Anonymous Marriage Coaching (my coaching practice).  Since I started coaching I’ve had the pleasure of helping a lot of couples through coaching, and that’s been an awesome experience.  However, I’ve also talked to

Sexual Positions Survey

I’ve received a few requests over the last month to do a survey on favorite positions (with regard to sex and oral sex).  So, I thought we’d do a quick survey to help answer the questions people have.

Can Christians have threesomes?

I wish this was a joke, but I received this question this week in from our Have A Question page: Are threesomes in marriage a sin I’ll be honest, I contemplated not answering it.  I really thought the answer was that obvious.  Then I did

Honor Bondage

I’ve been getting a lot of requests for information on bondage play.  Sadly, this is probably in partially due to the whole 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon, but there are some couples who are genuinely interested, without that influence. So, I thought I would write

When did God stop allowing multiple wives

I received a question this week in my inbox.  Actually, they asked a few questions over multiple emails.  I answered the ones I could and deferred this one for a post, because I felt it was fairly involved and I hadn’t yet tackled it on

Am I beautiful?

I think one of the biggest questions women have revolve around the question of beauty.  There seems to be this innate need to be found beautiful, to know that you are captivating.  Open up Google and type “Does my husband”, and the first suggestion is