Many people (bloggers, authors, readers) have been telling me for a while that I should write a book, and this year I mentioned that one of my goals was to do just that: write a full length book about marriage…
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Premature Ejaculation
Last week we did our analysis of our Orgasm Difficulties Survey and I had promised a post on each of the categories of difficulty. So, today we’re going to tackle Premature Ejaculation, also known as early ejaculation, rapid ejaculation, rapid climax,…
Wife turned on by naked women
This question came through on a survey comment, and I’m finally getting around to addressing it. I am a heterosexual married woman, and never been with anyone besides my husband. However, the sight of bare female breasts turns me on.…
Is there ever a right way to use fantasy or role-play in marriage?
This question again came from a coaching client, and I thought it was so appropriate in light of the whole 50 Shades of Grey discussion going on in the marriage field these days, that I would write a post with my…
I’m not getting what I need in my marriage
I see a trend in marriages these days. A lot of people complaining, lamenting, asking, wondering, why their spouses don’t provide for their needs in their marriage. Sometimes they’re simple things, like hugs, kisses, or just time together alone. Sometimes…
Orgasm difficulties survey results
Sometimes sex just doesn’t quite go the way you were hoping it would. Orgasm difficulties can include premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and anorgasmia. I was curious about how often these challenges occur. We see numbers about erectile dysfunction…
Orgasm Difficulties Survey & Giveaway
This survey is designed to explore a few stats about orgasm difficulties and will likely serve as a jumping point for future surveys on individual types of orgasm difficulties. And, since I know that many of you who don’t have orgasm…
I’m a father (again)
This is just a quick post for those who have been anxiously anticipating the birth of our newest addition. Well, he arrived this afternoon, weighing in at 9lbs, 15oz. Birth was quick, if not painless. Fingers and toes are all…
Is it wrong for Christians to watch 50 Shades of Grey with their spouse?
Received another anonymous question through our Have A Question page. This one will be short, because I’ve already addressed it in Should Christians read erotic literature, but, I think people might search for this question, so I’m willing to make…
Is oral sex a sin before marriage?
Is oral sex wrong before marriage? After all, it’s not technically fornication if it doesn’t include intercourse, right? What’s the harm?
Should Christians read erotic literature?
Erotica is becoming mainstream. 50 Shades of Grey was a New York Times bestseller last year, and the movie is expecting to be one of the largest grossing movies to date. Christianity has largely been silent on the issue. Oh, don’t…