I received two questions on our Have A Question page this week that I’m willing to bet come from the same person. They also sort of are on the same topic, so I’m going to tackle them at the same…
Is sensuality in Christian marriage a sin?
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What affect does premarital sex have on a marriage?
Last week I put out our premarital sex survey because I’d been getting a lot of comments, emails, etc. talking about how people felt their premarital sex, even if it was with their now spouse, had damaged their marriage. As well,…
Are my sex toys toxic
I received this question during one of our surveys: Where can one find a good christian resource for toys that encourage safe toys since most or a great many sex toys have toxic substances in them. Most resources that I…
Premarital sexual activities survey
This survey is in response to a comment I got on our of our previous surveys. They were wondering how premarital sex affected marital sex. I asked on our Facebook page if there were any other questions people wanted answered, and…
Should Christians have sex while fasting?
Should Christians have sex during Lent? Since it’s Lent right now, I thought it would be appropriate to answer this question in a blog post, as I’m sure some others are wondering the same thing. Likewise, there are probably a…
Blogger turned author
Many people (bloggers, authors, readers) have been telling me for a while that I should write a book, and this year I mentioned that one of my goals was to do just that: write a full length book about marriage…
Premature Ejaculation
Last week we did our analysis of our Orgasm Difficulties Survey and I had promised a post on each of the categories of difficulty. So, today we’re going to tackle Premature Ejaculation, also known as early ejaculation, rapid ejaculation, rapid climax,…
Wife turned on by naked women
This question came through on a survey comment, and I’m finally getting around to addressing it. I am a heterosexual married woman, and never been with anyone besides my husband. However, the sight of bare female breasts turns me on.…
Is there ever a right way to use fantasy or role-play in marriage?
This question again came from a coaching client, and I thought it was so appropriate in light of the whole 50 Shades of Grey discussion going on in the marriage field these days, that I would write a post with my…
I’m not getting what I need in my marriage
I see a trend in marriages these days. A lot of people complaining, lamenting, asking, wondering, why their spouses don’t provide for their needs in their marriage. Sometimes they’re simple things, like hugs, kisses, or just time together alone. Sometimes…
Orgasm difficulties survey results
Sometimes sex just doesn’t quite go the way you were hoping it would. Orgasm difficulties can include premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and anorgasmia. I was curious about how often these challenges occur. We see numbers about erectile dysfunction…