As many of my readers know, I recently took a new job. The work is fantastic. The pay is more than adequate. I’m respected, and I feel, and am told, that I’m a real asset to the company. Not only…
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How do you stay focused on your spouse during sex?
I have a few questions in my inbox from our Have A Question page this week, but I wanted to tackle this one that came in last night. I am trying to be a good Christian in my marriage but…
Homosexuality and Christians: How Do We Respond?
I’ve been avoiding this topic for quite some time. 4+ years of blogging about sex, and I’ve barely mentioned the issue of homosexuality. Why have I been avoiding it? Well, to be honest, I wanted to flesh out my own…
SWM020: 7 Dirty Fighting Techniques That Should Not Exist In Your Marriage
I once heard it said that the definition of conflict is two people in the same ZIP code. Well, in marriage the people are a lot closer than that, and this inevitably spawns conflict. Now, conflict isn’t bad, in fact,…
The Sex Within Marriage Manifesto
The topic of sex within marriage within the Christian community is an oddity. The reactions to bringing up the topic are quite varied: embarrassment, shame, fear, anger, interest, inquisitiveness, looking for help, looking to share a burden, wanting to know…
How can I make him taste better?
I received this question a couple of days ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: I love giving my husband oral, but I find his semen to be very bitter. It’s actually very difficult to not gag at the…
What if I want a chance to orgasm?
I received this question yesterday morning from our anonymous Have A Question page: Hi JD, do you think it’s okay for me to use a vibrator to orgasim next to hubby after he has fallen asleep after sex? He does…
SWM019: How long does a sexual awakening take?
Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSS | MoreSexual awakenings are a point where…
How do I introduce new activities into our married sex life?
I received this question yesterday from our anonymous Have A Question page: My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. I tried to give her oral sex once when we were first married and she stopped me…
Can Christian couples swing?
I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page a few days ago: Can we swap wives for sex (intercourse) in a marriage? We are told that there is a website on christian “swinging” (wife swapping). How christian …
What’s the difference between making love and having sex?
I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page a couple of days ago: Making love vs. having sex, what is the difference? What does this look like practically in the context of a Christian marriage? From what…