I received this question yesterday morning from our anonymous Have A Question page: Hi JD, do you think it’s okay for me to use a vibrator to orgasim next to hubby after he has fallen asleep after sex? He does…
What if I want a chance to orgasm?
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SWM019: How long does a sexual awakening take?
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Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSS | MoreSexual awakenings are a point where…
How do I introduce new activities into our married sex life?
I received this question yesterday from our anonymous Have A Question page: My wife and I have been married for over 20 years. I tried to give her oral sex once when we were first married and she stopped me…
Can Christian couples swing?
I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page a few days ago: Can we swap wives for sex (intercourse) in a marriage? We are told that there is a website on christian “swinging” (wife swapping). How christian …
What’s the difference between making love and having sex?
I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page a couple of days ago: Making love vs. having sex, what is the difference? What does this look like practically in the context of a Christian marriage? From what…
SWM018: Judaism had it right all along
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Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSS | MoreLet’s face it, Christianity is not…
How do I get my wife to be more sexually active?
I received this question through our anonymous Have A Question page this weekend: My wife really wants to come out of her shell, but she doesn’t know how. Can you recommend any ‘tools’ which she can use to flourish in…
What is sex?
Paul over at The Generous Husband recently wrote a post entitled Defining Sex and it got me thinking. Now, he was looking for a straight, all purpose definition of sex. But, I don’t think we can use that. Actually, I wish he…
The relationship is more important than the “rules”
Recently I was talking with someone about Christianity. She had grown up in a legalistic church environment where one must perform certain actions, dress a certain way, fit a certain mold, speak using specific terms in order to be considered…
SWM017: 8 Things I don’t want to admit as a Christian Marriage Podcaster
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Podcast: Play in new window | Download | EmbedSubscribe to the Podcast: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Amazon Music | Android | iHeartRadio | Podchaser | Email | TuneIn | Deezer | RSS | MoreA few years ago, I wrote…
How do you get over the gross factor?
This question came in over a week ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: My husband would like me to massage his prostate. There is a gross factor for me but I love him and would love to make…