A reader asked: If the number of women who reach orgasm from penetrative sex is as low as the surveys that you mention say it is, how would a couple know if the woman is one of those that doesn’t…
SWM 092 – How do you know if you’ve had an orgasm
Glossary Term: guilt
Definition: Guilt is an emotional state experienced when one perceives oneself as having violated a moral standard, causing feelings of remorse, regret, and distress.
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