Christian Marriage Bloggers Association

Last night my application was accepted to the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association (CMBA)! What is the CMBA? Well, from their site: The Christian Marriage Bloggers Association is a community of Christian internet marriage ministries that exists as a gathering place, like the Biblical watering well we provide

Training Your Spouse

In the last week or two, there has been a lot of discussion in the Christian marriage blog-o-sphere about teaching your spouse, as far as I can tell, it originated with an article over at Hot, Holy and Humorous called How You Like To Be Touched.

My Thoughts on Divorce

Let me start by saying that I know this is going to upset some people, and I’m sorry for that.  But not sorry enough not to post it. I’m seeing a growing trend in Christianity regarding divorce.  I’m not talking about the growing trend of

All You Want Is Sex

One of our largest topics for fighting conflict (in the past) is that I (from her perspective) “want sex all the time”.  I have pretty hard time denying that allegation, because, well, it’s true. I see this theme a lot in my readings on message

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

OK, I know, I know, every blog about marriage, relationships, etc has at least one article with that title.  They usual have a large list of techniques, activities.  Maybe they suggest a blindfold (gasp).  But that’s the easy stuff.  I think you guys are ready

Praying With Your Spouse

At weddings, I have been known to stand up and give an analogy of marriage as a three legged stool. The three legs of a marriage (in my short talk) are: Spiritual Intimacy Emotional Intimacy Physical Intimacy You need all three in order to have

Sexual Bets To Drive Personal Development

A couple of posts ago, I wrote about my wife and I placing sexual bets on a card game, and we had an awesome time.  Not only was the sex fun, but it brought a new element of fun to the card game as well.

New Twist on an old Game: Sexual Bets

Last week, my wife and I were chatting over Facebook (I was at work, she was on her phone).  We were discussing the plans for the evening, were there any meetings, clubs, activities, etc that we are required to go to.  Then she sent me

What I Hate About Breastfeeding

OK, this is largely a rant, so hang on. We’re currently enjoying our fourth newborn.  All our children have been breastfed, and this one is no different.  Let me start by saying that I 100% agree with breastfeeding children.  I think it’s the healthiest thing

Is Sex A Need Or A Want

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this topic for the last few days, weeks, months, years.  I guess it’s been on my mind since I got married, or shortly afterwards.  As stated in my first post, my marriage started off a little rocky,