Category Archives: Sex

How Do I Get My Husband To Be More Creative When Initiating Sex?

This is the ninth post in the 1/2 Marathon being orchestrated by the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association.  I have a bunch of questions left from the A Males Perspective teleconference I spoke at last week.  As such, I’ll be using this marathon to answer some of the questions I received.

Why Do Married Men Masturbate?

Why do married men masturbation?  This is a question that I’ve been thinking about for most of my marriage.  I see a lot of arguments on both sides of the fence but the Bible isn’t explicitly clear on the topic, so that leaves me with

Do You Believe Couples Go Through Sexual Seasons In Their Relationship?

This is the seventh post in the 1/2 Marathon being orchestrated by the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association.  I have a bunch of questions left from the A Males Perspective teleconference I spoke at last week.  As such, I’ll be using this marathon to answer some of the questions I received.

Do Men Want Their Women To Take The Lead More When It Comes To Sex?

This is the fifth post in the 1/2 Marathon being orchestrated by the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association.  I have a bunch of questions left from the A Males Perspective teleconference I spoke at last week.  As such, I’ll be using this marathon to answer some of the questions I received.

Why Do You Think Men Think About Sex More Than Women?

This is the second post in the 1/2 Marathon being orchestrated by the Christian Marriage Bloggers Association.  I have a bunch of questions left from the A Males Perspective teleconference I spoke at last week.  As such, I’ll be using this marathon to answer some of the questions I received.

Why Do You Think Women Need More Foreplay Than Men?

I should start by saying, I don’t fit the male stereotype. I love foreplay. I like kissing, I like hugging, I like feeling my wife. I also recognize that I need foreplay in order to perform sexually better. On the other side, my wife also does not fit the female stereotype. She gets annoyed with foreplay, she wants to “get on with it”, though she does recognize that she also needs foreplay in order to perform sexually better. We do fit the male/female stereo typical sex drives though, so, here’s my opinion on the matter:

All You Want Is Sex

One of our largest topics for fighting conflict (in the past) is that I (from her perspective) “want sex all the time”.  I have pretty hard time denying that allegation, because, well, it’s true. I see this theme a lot in my readings on message

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

OK, I know, I know, every blog about marriage, relationships, etc has at least one article with that title.  They usual have a large list of techniques, activities.  Maybe they suggest a blindfold (gasp).  But that’s the easy stuff.  I think you guys are ready

What I Hate About Breastfeeding

OK, this is largely a rant, so hang on. We’re currently enjoying our fourth newborn.  All our children have been breastfed, and this one is no different.  Let me start by saying that I 100% agree with breastfeeding children.  I think it’s the healthiest thing

Is Sex A Need Or A Want

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this topic for the last few days, weeks, months, years.  I guess it’s been on my mind since I got married, or shortly afterwards.  As stated in my first post, my marriage started off a little rocky,