Category Archives: Resources


Review: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

Every month, more than 1000 people come to this blog looking for information on how to introduce bondage into their marital bed or asking why it is that their spouse wants to be tied up.  Some of that is due to the 50 Shades of

Orgasming from oral sex survey results

A couple of weeks ago, I started running a survey to answer the question of one of the people in my Uncovering Intimacy Champions group.  Namely “How many men can’t orgasm from oral sex”.  Well, I expanded it a bit to answer a few more

Orgasming from Oral Sex Survey

Christian Sex Surveys

It’s been a while since we’ve run a survey, and we have a lot of new readers who have never participated in one. So I thought we’d try to get back into the habit of doing them regularly. One of the people in my Uncovering

Last minute sexy Christmas gifts

Last Minute Sexy Christmas Gifts

I had someone ask about sexy Christmas gifts they can get their spouse.  So, here’s a very quick run through of some things that I think you could still manage to get by Christmas. 1. Books ($10 and under) Amazon will let you know if

Eva – A strange but effective sex toy

Eva - The strange but effective sex toy

I’ll admit, the Eva is the strangest sex toy we own.  I mean, it doesn’t look like any other toy I have.  Almost every other one, it’s fairly obvious what you do with it. This one needs some explaining, but when you get it, you

Saving your marriage before it starts – Book Review

Saving your marriage before it starts

Do you ever wish someone had handed you a book when you got married to get you started on the right footing?  Or one that would have helped in saving your marriage from a lot of the struggles you’ve experienced as a couple? You know,

The DivaCup and why I love it

The DivaCup and why I love it - All your questions about menstrual cups answered, especially the embarrassing ones

There seems to be an increase in interest in finding out more about the DivaCup or other menstrual cups.  Wives want to know how they work and why would anyone use them? The DivaCup is a small silicone cup shaped to fit inside you. It fits over your

We-Vibe Sync – Product Review

We-Vibe Sync Product Review - An awesome couples toy

A couple of weeks ago I received a We-Vibe Sync in the mail.  I absolutely love the We-Vibe V1 we bought quite a few years ago and was looking forward to the updated version.  We-Vibe promised I wouldn’t be disappointed and they were right. About

Creative Conversation Starters for couples – Book Review

Creative Conversation Starters for couples - 100+ prompts to kick start your communication - Book Review

Creative Conversation Starters for couples – 100+ prompts to kick start your communication – Book ReviewCreative Conversation Starters for couples – 100+ prompts to kick start your communication – Book ReviewKeelie and Austin Reason of LoveHopeAdventure.com sent me a book of conversation starters a while

Do Christians have sex during their period?

Do Christians have sex during the wife's period?

Way back in May, I started a survey on period sex.  I said I would do the analysis when we hit 600 respondents.  Well, I give up.  We hit 490 and it’s sat there for the last two months.  I stopped badgering the mailing list