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What affect does premarital sex have on a marriage?

What effect does premarital sex have on a marriage

Last week I put out our premarital sex survey because I’d been getting a lot of comments, emails, etc. talking about how people felt their premarital sex, even if it was with their now spouse, had damaged their marriage.  As well,…

Are my sex toys toxic

Are my sex toys toxic

I received this question during one of our surveys: Where can one find a good christian resource for toys that encourage safe toys since most or a great many sex toys have toxic substances in them. Most resources that I…

Premarital sexual activities survey

Survey

This survey is in response to a comment I got on our of our previous surveys.  They were wondering how premarital sex affected marital sex.  I asked on our Facebook page if there were any other questions people wanted answered, and…

Should Christians have sex while fasting?

Should Christians have sex while fasting_

Should Christians have sex during Lent? Since it’s Lent right now, I thought it would be appropriate to answer this question in a blog post, as I’m sure some others are wondering the same thing.  Likewise, there are probably a…

Blogger turned author

BloggerTurnedAuthor

Many people (bloggers, authors, readers) have been telling me for a while that I should write a book, and this year I mentioned that one of my goals was to do just that: write a full length book about marriage…

Premature Ejaculation

Premature Ejaculation

Last week we did our analysis of our Orgasm Difficulties Survey and I had promised a post on each of the categories of difficulty.  So, today we’re going to tackle Premature Ejaculation, also known as early ejaculation, rapid ejaculation, rapid climax,…

Wife turned on by naked women

Anonymous Question

This question came through on a survey comment, and I’m finally getting around to addressing it. I am a heterosexual married woman, and never been with anyone besides my husband. However, the sight of bare female breasts turns me on.…

I’m not getting what I need in my marriage

Im Not Getting What I need in my marriage

I see a trend in marriages these days.  A lot of people complaining, lamenting, asking, wondering, why their spouses don’t provide for their needs in their marriage.  Sometimes they’re simple things, like hugs, kisses, or just time together alone.  Sometimes…

Orgasm difficulties survey results

Orgasm Difficulties Survey Results

Sometimes sex just doesn’t quite go the way you were hoping it would.  Orgasm difficulties can include premature ejaculation, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and anorgasmia.  I was curious about how often these challenges occur.  We see numbers about erectile dysfunction…

Orgasm Difficulties Survey & Giveaway

Survey

This survey is designed to explore a few stats about orgasm difficulties and will likely serve as a jumping point for future surveys on individual types of orgasm difficulties.  And, since I know that many of you who don’t have orgasm…