I thought I’d write a quick post about this, because it seems that it’s not always a well known concept. It’s the basic idea that your sex life seems to have inertia. For those of you with Physics backgrounds, we…
Sex leads to more sex
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When is it okay to say “no” to sex?
This discussion comes up a lot when talking about sex. It’s usually framed around the concept of rights and duties. But marriage isn’t about rights and duties, it’s about love, respect, and service. One of our readers asked for a post on this…
Survey on Christians and the prevalence of home videos and pictures of the naked variety
We’ve been talking a bit about pornography, movies with erotic content and such in them lately, and this has spawned a lot of people to ask questions about whether or not it’s okay to take home videos and/or pictures of…
Who’s influencing your thoughts?
Last month my pastor did a sermon series on the life of David, and he brought out a point that I felt had applications in marriage. It’s the idea of being careful who you listen to, because they can invade…
Are you willing to live for your spouse?
A couple of weeks ago our church started 10 days of prayer. For 10 days members showed up at the church every night to pray for about an hour and a half. We prayed for our members, for our church,…
How NOT to quit porn
Porn has become almost ubiquitous in our society, it’s everywhere, just behind the scenes. An estimated 50% of Christian men struggle with porn addiction at some point in their life (including pastors), and the last number I heard for women…
Is it okay to use a toy as foreplay?
Here’s a question I received a while back. I’ll be honest, I don’t even know what channel it came through, either one of our surveys or our Have A Question page I’d imagine. In either case, our reader asks: Is…
What do you do if you are asexual?
This question is starting to come up more and more. This week, I received the following message on Facebook: So what about ‘Asexuals’? I am a college student currently in a dating relationship and to be honest, I have pretty much…
Is sensuality in Christian marriage a sin?
I received two questions on our Have A Question page this week that I’m willing to bet come from the same person. They also sort of are on the same topic, so I’m going to tackle them at the same…
What affect does premarital sex have on a marriage?
Last week I put out our premarital sex survey because I’d been getting a lot of comments, emails, etc. talking about how people felt their premarital sex, even if it was with their now spouse, had damaged their marriage. As well,…
Are my sex toys toxic
I received this question during one of our surveys: Where can one find a good christian resource for toys that encourage safe toys since most or a great many sex toys have toxic substances in them. Most resources that I…