For most of our marriage, oral sex has been very one sided. For the first years, it was solely me performing oral sex on my wife, and never the other way around. It took her years to get accustomed to…
Is it OK not to swallow?
Glossary Term: sexual satisfaction
Definition: A state of gratification and fulfillment derived from the mutual, consensual physical intimacy between a husband and wife.
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