For the last month or so, we’ve had a survey open about how you prefer to have your spouse initiate sex. If you never got a chance, you can fill it out here. I do sometimes delve into old surveys…
What’s the best way to initiate sex?
Glossary Term: sexual initiation
Definition: "Sexual initiation" refers to the process of firstly engaging in sexual activity within the context of a committed, marital relationship.
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