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SWM 045 – Anonymous Questions from May and June 2019

Today we’re tackling such questions as:
How important is communication during sex?
Is it wrong to not want your wife to lose weight?
Someone asks if they should have an affair
How do you find time to have sex when you have young children?
Does premature ejaculation affect your sex drive?
What do you do if your husband won’t quit masturbating alone?
Is it still considered crossdressing if it’s for comfort?
A question about male chastity or female-led relationships.
Should you suggest a boob job to your wife?
A question about language in the bedroom.

SWM 039 – Anonymous Questions from January 2019 – Part 3

This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions Have A Question page.

If you heard the previous two parts of these questions, I was trying to sort the questions by topic. Today we’re tackling some questions about sex drive, and then a bunch that didn’t fit into any nice categories.

Anonymous Questions – Oct 10, 2018

It’s been almost two months since I answered anonymous questions, so I thought I’d catch up. For those who are new to the site, these questions are all gathered from our anonymous Have A Question page. If you have a question that you’d like answered,

Are you sabotaging your sex life like I do?

I’ve spent the last few years trying to get better insight into the mind of a spouse who desires less sex. Why? Because I’m married to one, and one of my goals in life is to make her feel known and loved. Unfortunately, the more

Trapped gatekeepers – blame the guard, not the prisoner

Trapped gatekeepers - blame the guard, not he prisoner

In some marriages, the spouse with the lower sex drive simply decides their perspective is the most important and ends up being the gatekeeper of sex. That is, they decide when sex is, what sort of sex there is, and generally it’s given out fairly

Taking Advantage of Valentine’s Day

If you’ve been reading here a while, you know, I’m not a huge fan of Valentine’s Day. That said, I’m perfectly okay with taking advantage of the season when it works in my favour. I will NOT buy roses at 2x-3x the price, but I

5 ways to stop stress from killing your sex life

Stress has a huge impact on our sex lives. It changes everything from the initial desire to have sex, through to arousal and ultimately the ability to orgasm. For most people, sex negatively impacts all these things. So, one of my readers wants to know,