Definition: Libido refers to the natural, biological drive or desire for sexual intimacy and activity in human beings.
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Topics include: •Talking about a lack of sex •Not drive due to cancer treatments •Wife doesn’t want to use lube •Our sex life is routine •Strap-on to help with premature ejaculation •Do husbands like handjobs? •Can a married couple film…
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Topics include: Exhibitionism No sex in 4 months Should I disclose previous porn struggles to fiancee Other resources What qualifies as mutual masturbation Need rougher sex to orgasm
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Topics include: Wife trades chores for sex How to handle no sex due to birth Water-based lube that doesn’t cause UTIs Guy’s relationships always end in affairs Post-childbirth and penis size preferences Wife is a gatekeeper
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Answering the question: Hi Jay, I’ve noticed a dichotomy when it comes to expectations for male and female sex drives and what’s considered desirable sexual performance. As a man, I feel like there’s a lot of pressure to perform sexually.…
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Topics include: Phone sex Oral sex to completion Forgiveness and trust after betrayal Are pictures and videos a problem? Increasing female libido naturally What is our duty? Toxic wife Abusive employer
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Topics include: Crossdressing Counseling not fixing her sex drive Should I keep fantasies to myself? Husband addicted to porn Wife has no sex drive FaceTime sex Spouse’s facial and body hair Does Viagra work for women? How do I stop…
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In this episode, we are tackling the subjects: Wanting your wife to have sex with other men How to handle a spouse who doesn’t want to have sex What is healthy sexuality for single people? Does God intend for you…
I’ve been telling husbands for years that they should learn how to give a good sensual massage. It’s one of my go-to recommendations for helping couples when it comes to sexual intimacy. The couples who have tried it all agree…
Why you don’t have that “I want to rip your clothes off” feeling anymore. In this post/podcast episode, I tackle the question of what causes that feeling, and the neuro-chemicals involved.
Today we’re tackling such questions as: How important is communication during sex? Is it wrong to not want your wife to lose weight? Someone asks if they should have an affair How do you find time to have sex when…
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This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions Have A Question page. If you heard the previous two parts of these questions, I was trying to sort the questions by topic. Today we’re tackling some questions…