I’m getting sick and tired of hearing references to Ephesians 5:25. It seems every time I turn around, some other person, be it a man or a woman, is quoting it. In case you don’t know it off the top…
Stop telling men to be self-sacrificing
Glossary Term: biblical submission
Definition: A principle within Christian marriage, interpreted from biblical teachings, that encourages wives to yield to their husbands' leadership as a sign of respect and love, while husbands are called to love their wives selflessly and lead with wisdom and godliness.
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