I’ve spent the last few years trying to get better insight into the mind of a spouse who desires less sex. Why? Because I’m married to one, and one of my goals in life is to make her feel known…
Are you sabotaging your sex life like I do?
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Anonymous Questions – Is wanting adventurous sex natural, and husbands who do not want sex all the time
Well, it hasn’t quite been a week, but I wanted to get our weekly email out because of an announcement (if you missed it, subscribe to make sure you don’t miss any more). In the mean time, I also have…
The worst time to spice up your sex life
I’ve written a lot about different ways to spice up your sex life. Those of you who have been reading a while know I tend to prefer conversations that spark understanding and long-term growth over short-term gimmicks. However, I have…
Black Friday deals to spice up your marriage!
Well, it’s Thanksgiving in the US … you know, because they’re trying to catch up with us Canadians who had Thanksgiving last month 🙂 Of course, with the American Thanksgiving comes Black Friday and some crazy deals. So, I thought…
The dishes can wait – How to make sex a priority
Do you ever find that you have so much to do in the evening, dishes, laundry, catching up on TV shows, etc., that by the time you get to bed, you’re too tired to have sex? With 5 kids to…
A day of sex
We tried something recently that I thought I’d share, because it might interest some of you. Warning: If you’re currently in a marriage where your spouse is actively gate-keeping or refusing sex, don’t read this. It will just irritate you.…
The one thing that will make you better in bed
Many spouses want to learn to be a better lover. You may think it takes knowledge about techniques, tricks and hidden tips about sex, or that it takes a perfect body, able to last hours of pleasurable motion, but the…
Why marriage ruins sex
Sometimes it can seem like marriage ruins sex. After getting married, many people notice that sex becomes routine, boring and just not that exciting. Yes, the spouses with the stronger drive will still have a strong desire for sex, but…
6 ways to ensure you have a terrible sex life
If you haven’t heard yet, I’m planning to run a webinar in the near future. If you have a preference on the topic, you should fill out this form to vote. Currently, the topic people want to hear about most…
Review: Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System
Every month, more than 1000 people come to this blog looking for information on how to introduce bondage into their marital bed or asking why it is that their spouse wants to be tied up. Some of that is due…
Orgasming from Oral Sex Survey
It’s been a while since we’ve run a survey, and we have a lot of new readers who have never participated in one. So I thought we’d try to get back into the habit of doing them regularly. One of…