Monthly Archives: April 2016

On the topic of edging

I received this question last night from our Have A Question page: My wife is curious about “edging”, what is it? Is there a benefit for this? Edging is the practice of getting your spouse right up to the “edge” of having an

Is it unreasonable to expect my spouse to remove their pubic hair?

Some of you may recognize this question from our Personal Grooming Survey (go fill it out if you haven’t already): Is it unreasonable for me (husband) to expect my wife to continue to remove pubic hair, like she did when we were dating? We’ve

How can my spouse love me if they are withholding sex?

I received this question a couple of weeks ago from our Have A Question page: How can my wife say that she loves me but then withhold sex; say she loves me but not want to have sex with me? If I did

Do you pray as a couple before sex, after sex, or does it depend on the night?

This is a question I received some time ago.  I don’t remember when, or through what channel.  But, I want to take the time to answer it today. Do you pray as a couple before sex, after sex, or does it depend on

Is it alright to ejaculate on my wife?

I received this anonymous question last night through our Have A Question page.  I have more than have been there longer, and I intend to answer them, but today I don’t have much time, so I picked it because I thought it would be

How do you tell your spouse you’re having too much sex?

I received this question last week through our anonymous Have A Question page: I am a 32 year old mom of three little ones, with a pretty good sex drive (2-6a week) but my husband has much higher than me. We have sex

Personal Grooming Survey

I received a question about a week ago regarding personal grooming, and in the question they stated: [My wife] claims that NO ONE does that every week, month or more than once or twice a year… For those of you who have been

SWM024: Why Do Men Think Sex is a Reward?

Often men see sex as a reward, even when it’s not intended for one.  Conversely, if they don’t have sex, sometimes they feel punished, or that they failed at something.  Why is this?  I think there are three reasons.

Want help losing weight and getting fit?

I’ve been thinking about fitness lately.  More specifically, I’ve been frustrated by my lack of fitness lately.  For those who are long time readers, this is an ongoing frustration.  I’ve been technically obese my entire adult life, and while I don’t look obese

Can a wife be both a lady and an exciting sexual partner?

I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page last month.  I have more recent ones, but to be honest, I don’t follow a “first come first serve” policy.  I sort of pick whichever one I’m inspired to answer on any

Book Review: Do It Better – Twelve Sexual Routines and Principles You Wish You Knew

Back in February, I got a message from Sarah and Jeff Harris (actually the email was from Jeff) telling me they loved my blog (yay!), and that they had written a book “Do It Better – Twelve Sexual Routines and Principles You Wish You