During July and a bit of August, we ran a survey about people’s BDSM experiences. Depending on who you ask, it was either extensive or just dipping our toes into the topic. In the end, we received over 1,000 complete…
BDSM Survey Results
Glossary Term: Submission
Definition: In the context of a marital relationship, 'submission' refers to the voluntary act of yielding one's own will or preferences in favor of the desires or decisions of their spouse, often rooted in a mutual respect and love.
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