Yesterday I wrote that one of the myths we buy into is that sex has to be erotic all the time. I think it’s true that sex won’t be erotic every time. Sometimes, like with “maintenance sex” as I called…
Can married sex be erotic?
Glossary Term: sex
Definition: It is the biological act between a married man and woman involving physical intimacy and procreation, often strengthening emotional bonds and manifesting love within the sanctity of marriage.
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