Uncovering Intimacy

What Do I Do If I Get Turned On By Someone/Something Other Than My Spouse?

What do you do if you’re watching a movie, and suddenly there is a sex scene and you get aroused? What’s the proper response?

Why Do Men Think Sex Is A Reward?

Sex is a reward in the minds of most men. Why do husbands think this? What does this mean for your relationship? Should you still have sex when he’s wrong?

What Is Your Opinion Of Solo Masturbation Due To Separation?

This question came from the comments section and I delayed responding because the initial answer I felt was a bit harsh. I thought I’d take the time to pray and think and read and see if my opinion mellowed. It didn’t. So, here it is, no holds barred.

How Do I Get My Husband To Be More Creative When Initiating Sex?

Wondering how to get your husband to be more creative in the bedroom? This is how.

Why Do Married Men Masturbate?

Ever wonder why married men masturbate? Is sex not enough? Why do they do it? I think there are three main reasons at the center of all solo masturbation.

Do You Believe Couples Go Through Sexual Seasons In Their Relationship?

Will sex always be the same in marriage, or does it go up and down, like a roller coaster, or the tide? How can we handle these changes, what do they mean?

Does It Hurt A Man’s Feelings When We Give Instructions To Him In The Bedroom On What We Like And Dislike As A Women In Bed?

Yes, it’s probably going to hurt him, but there are ways you can mitigate the risk and even potentially turn it into a positive.

Do Men Want Their Women To Take The Lead More When It Comes To Sex?

I think this is a mistaken perception most of the time. We see this all the time on movies and TV shows, the sexually aggressive female, not only aggressive, but overtly aggressive, and it sparks something in men when they see that, they are attracted to it. Why? I don’t think it’s that the woman is aggressive, it’s that she’s sexually confident.

How Would Most Men Describe A Romantic Evening?

How would most men describe a romantic evening?

If you ask me to describe a romantic evening, or plan a romantic weekend, or something similar, my answer will be exactly what I think my wife would think would be romantic. I don’t think I really grasp the concept of romance, and based on comments from lots of wives on message boards, blogs, etc, I don’t think I’m alone.