Is oral sex wrong before marriage? After all, it’s not technically fornication if it doesn’t include intercourse, right? What’s the harm?

Erotica is becoming mainstream.  50 Shades of Grey was a New York Times bestseller last year, and the movie is expecting to be one of the largest grossing movies to date.  Christianity has largely been silent on the issue.  Oh, don’t get me wrong, there are

Christianity teaches that sex should be reserved for marriage, that this activity should only be for a committed, married couple to share.  But, many of us don’t make it to the wedding day as pure white as the wedding dress symbolizes.  Many have sex, many

This survey was actually sent to me by a reader.  We’ve talked about porn in the past, but not much about erotic literature.  So, he was curious about the prevalence of erotic literature reading in Christian marriages.  I tweaked it a bit (with his permission),

This week a very good friend of mine, sent me an email with the subject “Found a great blog”, and the body of the email was just a link to this blog and the words “What do you think?” In case you didn’t catch that…my friend

A question that comes up often in my talks with spouses is “When do I give up hope?”  After all, if divorce isn’t an option and you can’t make your spouse do anything, what are the chances that they’re just going to “come around” and be

I was asked this question recently over Twitter, so it’s not quite anonymous, but well, it was easier to stick with the same graphic.  Plus, I didn’t ask if the questioner wanted to be attributed, so I thought it best to keep it this way.

I received this question last night, through our Have A Question page and even though I’ve answered it on other posts, I have no way of letting the asker know, other than writing a short post specifically about their question.  Plus, I thought I might