Is oral sex wrong before marriage? After all, it’s not technically fornication if it doesn’t include intercourse, right? What’s the harm?
Is oral sex a sin before marriage?
Category Archives: Sex
Should Christians read erotic literature?
Erotica is becoming mainstream. 50 Shades of Grey was a New York Times bestseller last year, and the movie is expecting to be one of the largest grossing movies to date. Christianity has largely been silent on the issue. Oh, don’t get me wrong, there are
Erotic Literature Survey Infographic
Here is an Infographic based on the results of our Erotic Literature Survey (you can still fill it out if you missed it, we’ll use the results in future posts). I’ll be writing a post giving my thoughts on the subject this week, but thought
Is my married sex life ruined because I had sex before marriage?
Christianity teaches that sex should be reserved for marriage, that this activity should only be for a committed, married couple to share. But, many of us don’t make it to the wedding day as pure white as the wedding dress symbolizes. Many have sex, many
Erotic Literature Survey
This survey was actually sent to me by a reader. We’ve talked about porn in the past, but not much about erotic literature. So, he was curious about the prevalence of erotic literature reading in Christian marriages. I tweaked it a bit (with his permission),
Shame vs Embarrassment
This week a very good friend of mine, sent me an email with the subject “Found a great blog”, and the body of the email was just a link to this blog and the words “What do you think?” In case you didn’t catch that…my friend
When do I give up hope?
A question that comes up often in my talks with spouses is “When do I give up hope?” After all, if divorce isn’t an option and you can’t make your spouse do anything, what are the chances that they’re just going to “come around” and be
Who should initiate sex, husband, or wife?
I was asked this question recently over Twitter, so it’s not quite anonymous, but well, it was easier to stick with the same graphic. Plus, I didn’t ask if the questioner wanted to be attributed, so I thought it best to keep it this way.
If masturbation is sinful, what do you do if you don’t orgasm during sex?
I received this question last night, through our Have A Question page and even though I’ve answered it on other posts, I have no way of letting the asker know, other than writing a short post specifically about their question. Plus, I thought I might
Condoms for permanent birth control?
I’m afraid I received this email from our Have A Question page nearly a week ago, so I’m a bit late in answering it. The questions are: I have 2 questions. The first is, Is it normal or okay to use condoms because neither spouse wants
Should my spouse choose my appearance?
I received a question on our Facebook Page a few days ago dealing with appearance and who should get to choose how you look, you or your spouse? Here’s the question: If you loved your wife’s looks exactly how she is, how would you feel