Jay Dee, Author at Uncovering Intimacy

My Wife Wants Me To Tie Her Up?!

I’ve seen this question in a few places where all of a sudden a wife lets out that she wants her husband to tie her up. Note: I’ve been seeing these WAY before 50 Shades of Grey was even a concept.…

LORD, Help Me Understand My Wife

I’ve been praying for years to understand my wife better, in particular, why she doesn’t want sex as often as I do. Being the higher drive spouse who thinks about sex almost constantly, it is sometimes mind-boggling to me why…

How To React To A Sexual Awakening

My last post, How Long Does a Sexual Awakening Take?, dealt with the fact that an awakening is sometimes a process, and one must be patient during that process. This one will tackle the other side of the marriage: Typically,…

How Long Does A Sexual Awakening Take?

Just so everyone is on the same page: the term “Sexual Awakening” is used in many Christian Marriage communities to describe a point where a spouse who has been refusing (limiting sex in the relationship), or one who just has…

Mother’s Day is the Most Dangerous Day of the Year for Couples

Did you know that Mother’s Day is the most dangerous day of the year for couples? It causes more affairs than any other day in the year. Find out why.

16 Confessions of a Marriage Sex Blogger

16 things about me and my role in being a Christian marriage sex blogger, in the hopes that it might help you get to know where I’m coming from a bit more.

Why Don’t I Give My Wife More Massages?

I know that if I want more sex, all I have to do is give more massages, not as a trade, but because it puts my wife in the mood. So, why don’t I do it?

How do I get my spouse to do [blank]?

Want to change your spouse? Trying to figure out how to do it? Thinking “how can I get my spouse to do this”? Here’s how you do it.

What does household leadership mean for the husband?

Ever wonder what household leadership feels like in terms of responsibility for the husband? Think it’s all just fun and getting your way? Guess again.