All posts by Jay Dee

Why your wife doesn’t know what she wants

Does your wife have trouble telling you what she wants? Do you feel like she expects you to read her mind? Ever wonder why she can’t just tell you?

Pregnancy and sex

Are you or your wife pregnant? Has it changed your sex life, or are you worried it will? Here’s my experience of how sex life changes due to pregnancy.

Sexual Frequency: Why I Don’t Worry Anymore

For the first 8 or so years of our marriage, we were in constant argument was the frequency of sex. This seems to be common among many Christian marriages.

Why is it a struggle? How do you resolve the struggle?

Sex Within Marriage Maiden Post

Why do I blog about sex within marriage? Because ours started off horribly, and I want to help others get out of that dynamic as quick as possible.

Old Baptist Prude on Sexual Frequency: Why I Don’t Worry Anymore: “I appreciated reading this post and the honest discussion that followed it. Jay, I appreciate your honesty and your willingness…” May 6, 07:43
Mellissa Gibson on Can Christians have threesomes?: “Don’t be ashamed to be a women, and don’t listen to what people say; but read the bible and do…” May 6, 02:49
Steve on How many wives actually like giving oral sex?: “As a man, I love giving my wife oral sex. I go until she wants intercourse. I love to taste…” May 5, 14:42
Jay Dee on Is it okay to engage in pegging in marriage: “Could you point me to one of these passages? I noticed you left out any references. Also “it hurts each…” May 5, 09:33
Jenny on Is it okay to engage in pegging in marriage: “Your website is deceptive and full of lies. You support sodomy which is unatural and is an abomination act. It…” May 5, 09:09
Jay Dee on SWM 087 – January 2022 Anonymous Questions: “Hi Yas, I would argue that you only think it’s male-centric because of your personal dislike of oral sex. If…” Apr 23, 07:52
Yas on SWM 087 – January 2022 Anonymous Questions: “I want to comment on question 4. I am going to offer a woman’s perspective here and answer the question…” Apr 23, 06:48
Jay Dee on Is it okay to engage in pegging in marriage: “Find me a verse.” Apr 20, 06:53
oldgymnasticsfan on Is it okay to engage in pegging in marriage: “1.”It’s never mentioned directly or indirectly. Rather, people made the word based on the name of a people who were…” Apr 20, 02:37
Vince on SWM 088 – My Vasectomy Experience: “I was not wise. Got snipped on Friday. Saturday 7am my phone rang as the State Forester was not sure…” Apr 17, 18:49