During July and a bit of August, we ran a survey about people’s BDSM experiences. Depending on who you ask, it was either extensive or just dipping our toes into the topic. In the end, we received over 1,000 complete…
BDSM Survey Results
Glossary Term: submissive
Definition: In the context of BDSM, it refers to the partner who willingly consents to yield to the control and direction of the other in a sexual or erotic context, within agreed-upon boundaries and limits.
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