Topics Include:
Crossdressing
Reframing “duty” sex
Wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn’t
Afraid to have more children
SWM 109 – Crossdressing, reframing duty sex, wife gets sex when she wants, but he doesn’t
Tag Archives: sexual refusal
SWM 087 – January 2022 Anonymous Questions
Topics Include:
Low Drive / Low T Husband
Wife won’t talk about sex
Not attracted to my husband
Wife against spicing up sex
Is there a difference between having sex and making love?
SWM 061 – September 2020 Questions – High Drive Wives, Being Too Wet, Polyamory and more
Topics include:
Husbands who refuse sex
Being too wet
Pegging
Dreams
Needing different kinds of foreplay
Polyamory
Cuckolding
SWM 054 – Anonymous Questions – February 2020
Anonymous questions from February 2020.
Topics include:
How can I become more comfortable masturbating?
Why wouldn’t he use lube?
How to have “team sex” (not what you think)
Husband can’t be emotionally intimate or trust me
Meta discussion about piercings
How do I start to fix my marriage?
Becoming more sexually engaged
Anonymous Questions – March 29, 2018
As with last week, I’m posting my responses to this week’s anonymous questions here on the blog so that those not on the weekly newsletter can read them, but also so people can start a discussion in the comments section below, if they feel so
External events can stop a sex session from going anywhere
For many spouses, external events can negatively affect the sexual context. This generally is the wife, but not always, as this reader’s question shows: We are working through a sexual refusal pattern in marriage and we are making good progress. Last night I pointed out
Being more skilled at rejection
A couple of posts ago, I wrote about being more skilled at initiating sex, but today we’re going to tackle rejection. I think sexual rejection might be one of the touchiest conflicts to handle in marriage. It’s hard to do correctly and too easily to
Are you the gatekeeper of sex?
It often happens that one spouse becomes the gatekeeper of sex in a marriage. I think a lot of the time, they don’t even realize they are. Sometimes it’s because they’re selfish. Sometimes it’s because they have misunderstandings about sex. Sometimes it’s because they have
Your spouse’ sin doesn’t counterbalance yours
Not a week goes by that I don’t see this portrayed in a comment or email from a reader. Their spouse has committed, or is committing, some sin, and so their response is that they have to do something wrong as well. Sometimes it’s a retaliation,
How do I deal with an abusive spouse?
I received this question almost a week ago from our anonymous Have A Question page: When we first got together my husband was a reasonable lover in that he seemed to care about my needs somewhat. He quickly turned into a raging bull, satisfying only
How do you get a marriage annulment?
I received this question from our anonymous Have A Question page about a week ago: My wife and I are committed Christians, but have not yet been able to go all the way in our marriage. I believe that I should wait, but getting the