Definition: It is the act in which two married partners simultaneously stimulate their own or each other's genitals, leading to sexual arousal or orgasm, as a form of non-penetrative intimacy.
Nearly a year ago someone suggested I redo my 2014 survey on mutual masturbation. I did, and I expanded it considerably. What I got back from 1,043 married Christians was more interesting than I expected. Some of it confirmed what…
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Topics include: Exhibitionism No sex in 4 months Should I disclose previous porn struggles to fiancee Other resources What qualifies as mutual masturbation Need rougher sex to orgasm
SWM 123
Topics include: The monthly masturbation challenge How do I make anal sex enjoyable for her? Periods and vacations and sex Aging and orgasm struggles How do I know if I’m in right? Does fantasizing about my husband make it a…
I found a way to protect kids from sexual assault – reducing their risk by 56%. Want to know what it is? Anyone can do it.
A bit ago, I ran a survey to answer the question – does having sex before marriage impact sex within the marriage? Because, let’s face it, many people got fed the line that “if you wait until marriage, God is…
SWM 113
Topics Include: A husband’s changing orgasms Can widowers masturbate Husband won’t stop masturbation habit Calling husband “daddy” Feeling guilty about initiating sex
SWM 110
Topics include: My wife feels disrespected because I notice other women Wife is hurt but not healing after years Wife disconnects during foreplay What can we do during fertile days Oral sex questions Husband doesn’t know our anniversary date Should…
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Topics include: Where does the energy come from? Mutual masturbation Sharing fantasies and machines Masturbation due to struggles with orgasming Spontaneous / Responsive desire quiz Why do married men masturbate? How do you meet other people? Can I use sex…
SWM 091
Topics include: Is it okay to masturbate as a widow? Explaining romance and foreplay Is it unreasonable to expect both spouses to enjoy sex? Is my wife really having an orgasm? Is it wrong to want to be more adventurous?…
SWM 090
Topics include: Husband who gets defensive about possible porn use Did I change my mind about anal sex? How to I tell my wife that more sex helps with temptation? Is mutual masturbation okay if you’re separated due to work?…
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Topics include: Wife becoming less adventurous How long before porn memories fade? What counts as premature ejaculation? Is getting a vasectomy a sin? Husband isn’t acting like a believer Is it okay to talk about sex? Are we going too…