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SWM 105 – Threesome temptation, aversion to manual and oral, penis size, falling asleep during sex

Answering Anonymous Questions about Married Sex

Topics include:
Threesome temptations
Aversion to receiving manual and oral sex
Penis size
Falling asleep during sexy time

Anonymous Questions – May 3, 2018

In the last couple of weeks, we’ve received a few anonymous questions, and as I mentioned on our weekly update to the newsletter (subscribe here if you haven’t already), I’ll be answering them here for those who want to read and comment below. If you’d

Are you preparing your life for ministry?

This weekend my family and I were camping up north at a Christian family camp. Cold weekend. Dropped to three degrees Celsius the first night (that’s 37.4 degrees Fahrenheit for my American readers). A bit chilly for a tent. But, we survived. Now, I didn’t

Stop telling men to be self-sacrificing

I’m getting sick and tired of hearing references to Ephesians 5:25. It seems every time I turn around, some other person, be it a man or a woman, is quoting it. In case you don’t know it off the top of your head. Here’s the

Making your spouse earn sex can make you feel like a prostitute

Making your spouse earn sex makes you feel like a prostitute

We see a lot of people in Christianity saying that men have to earn the right to have sex with their wife. While I believe the advice is well-intentioned, and may even be practical, it is not biblical and it leads to some serious issues.

When did God stop allowing multiple wives

I received a question this week in my inbox. Actually, they asked a few questions over multiple emails. I answered the ones I could and deferred this one for a post, because I felt it was fairly involved and I hadn’t yet tackled it on

Is my spouse attracted to me?

I wrote a survey this weekend to help out with a post and answer a question from a reader: Was their spouse attracted to them? So many people commented, both in the survey, on Facebook, message boards, in emails, comments, etc., that they wanted to see the

What does household leadership mean for the husband?

Ever wonder what household leadership feels like in terms of responsibility for the husband? Think it’s all just fun and getting your way? Guess again.