Well, summer is nearly over. Here in Canada, this is our last long weekend until Thanksgiving in October, so our family is going camping and while we’re there, my wife is running a Spartan Beast – 21 km (13 mile)…
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Glossary Term: accountability
Definition: Accountability refers to the responsibility each partner holds in a marriage to be honest, faithful, and reliable, upholding their vows and commitments to each other in a mutually respectful manner.
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