I received this through our Have A Question page where readers submit anonymous questions: Is it a sin to lust after your wife. The Bible says to not covet your neighbors wife. But is it wrong to covet your own wife. to look longingly at her
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Anonymous Question: What do you think about breath play (erotic asphyxiation)?
Here’s another question I received through our Have A Question page for those who have questions but want to ask them anonymously. This is more a question of curiosity. What do you think about breath play? science, appropriateness etc…
An update on what’s going on at SWM
Well, we’ve been busy at SexWithinMarriage.com. I know, it doesn’t always look like it, because I haven’t been writing as many posts, and I’m sorry for that. I thought I’d write a quick post just to let you know what’s going on, because, honestly, I’m
46 Facts about orgasms for National Orgasm Day
Well, it’s National Orgasm Day in the US, and I thought we’d help them celebrate by sharing some facts about orgasm. Just for fun. Then you can go and celebrate however you wish.
Adult Nursing Relationships
I’ve been putting off this post for a long time, but after writing about why men are breast obsessed, it seemed an opportune time to bring it up. So, today we’re going to talk about Adult Nursing Relationships, also known as ANRs, and more specifically,
Why are men obsessed with breasts?
This week Christina asked me why I act differently when she’s changing, particularly when she’s topless. I’m sure most wives at some point wonder, why it is that their husbands are so obsessed with their breasts. I know for myself, if my wife’s shirt and
Are you willing to hold people accountable to their vows?
I was talking with a friend this week about a variety of subjects, and in the course of our discussing, I said that I think we, as Christians, are failing in our duties to our fellow believers, particularly when it comes to marriages. We, in
Is it sinful for a woman to wear pants?
This week I saw this question in my moderation queue: I want to ask about clothing, about woman not wearing what belongs to a man. I need explanation on that because i feel deut 22 vs 5 is misunderstood. That looked like a fun topic,
Sexual Positions Survey Results
At the request of a few readers, I ran a survey a week and a bit ago asking people what their favorite positions were during sex. And I decided to hold out doing the analysis until we hit 500 respondents. That seemed to work, because we
Do not be deceived
I come across a pattern from time to time in this ministry. Couples who get deceived by something evil, thinking it’s good. I got a message just yesterday showcasing this pattern yet again. So, I thought I’d write a quick post in the hopes that
Making help more affordable
I thought I’d let you guys know of a change over at Anonymous Marriage Coaching (my coaching practice). Since I started coaching I’ve had the pleasure of helping a lot of couples through coaching, and that’s been an awesome experience. However, I’ve also talked to