Category Archives: Physical Intimacy


Sex can be silly

I was talking with someone the other day who was struggling with the idea that sex can be fun and silly and a laughable situation.  I may be mistaken, but it seemed she never realized that it’s okay to laugh about and during sex.  So,

Is it okay to role-play a rape scenario?

I’m playing catch up on some previous questions.  This one came in more than a month ago, and I’m afraid I’ve been a little slow to answer: My wife and I are both Christian Faith and have a question about a fantasy we both have.

Do spouses have the right to specific sexual acts?

Now, it could be argued that being married gives you the right to have sex.  1 Corinthians 7:5 would support this claim, and I think it’s perfectly reasonable to expect, when you get married, that sex is on the table (chair, rug by the fire,

Why is it important for Christians to marry Christians?

I get emails weekly from readers who, sadly, are in marriages with non-Christians, while they themselves are believers.  Some find themselves in this situations due to a loss of faith by their spouse, who used to believe, but far more often, it’s because they have

Can I write erotica for my husband and I?

This question came in on our Have A Question page yesterday: I am a fanfiction writer, and I wrote a couple of erotica chapters, mostly between monogamous couples. I think prayer made me realized it was not the best idea, so I took them back from

When is sex outside of marriage permitted?

I found this question in my list of drafts that I hadn’t tackled yet, so here we go: My question is this, when circumstances are exceptional (impossible), is sex outside of marriage ok? In short, my situation is this – firstly, my boyfriend and I

Can you divorce a spouse because of porn use?

This question came up in a discussion with some readers: If a spouse, after given an ultimatum about quitting porn, chooses the porn, is it okay to divorce them?  The questioner basically gave the answer I would, but I wanted to expand a bit on

Is it a sin to lust after your wife?

I received this through our Have A Question page where readers submit anonymous questions: Is it a sin to lust after your wife.  The Bible says to not covet your neighbors wife.   But is it wrong to covet your own wife.   to look longingly at her