Category Archives: Sex


All You Want Is Sex

One of our largest topics of conflict (in the past) is that I (from her perspective) “want sex all the time”.  I have a pretty hard time denying that allegation, because, well, it’s true. I see this theme a lot in my readings on message

How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

OK, I know, I know, every blog about marriage, relationships, etc has at least one article with that title.  They usually have a large list of techniques, activities.  Maybe they suggest a blindfold (gasp).  But that’s the easy stuff.   I think you want something

What I Hate About Breastfeeding

OK, this is largely a rant, so hang on. Let me preface this by saying I’m 100% in favour of breastfeeding children. I think breast milk is the healthiest option for infants. All our children have been exclusively breastfed, and I would never suggest anything

Is sex a need or want in marriage?

I’ve spent a lot of time thinking about this topic for the last few days, weeks, months, years.  I guess it’s been on my mind since I got married, or shortly afterwards.  As stated in my first post, my marriage started off a little rocky,

Pregnancy and sex

Are you or your wife pregnant? Has it changed your sex life, or are you worried it will? Here’s my experience of how sex life changes due to pregnancy.

Sexual Frequency: Why I Don’t Worry Anymore

For the first 8 or so years of our marriage, we were in constant argument was the frequency of sex. This seems to be common among many Christian marriages.

Why is it a struggle? How do you resolve the struggle?